Stop playing small or overcompensating in dating and finally attract a strong man who adores you without lowering your standards or wasting time on clowns.
If you’ve ever thought to yourself, "Why can I crush deadlines, workouts, and my social calendar but I can’t get a man to plan a date?" — you’re in the right place.
This isn’t a box of recycled dating tips. This is a
high-touch, immersive experience that changes the way powerful women date.
I know modern dating can feel like a drag… that's why I’m s0 obsessed with showing you that it can actually be fun and that good men (while rare) do exist.
Is Ruthless Romance right for you?
You’re a total badass at work and in life but secretly hate how dating makes you feel insecure, needy, or “too much.”
You refuse to settle. You'd rather be single forever than have some bozo rob you of your peace.
Deep down, you know you deserve a secure, healthy partnership with a man who actually sees your power as irresistible, not intimidating.
You dream of a relationship that feels incredibly safe and breathlessly sexy at the same time.
People who would rather blame the dating apps or men instead of looking at what they can shift inside themselves.
People who aren't willing to be honest, vulnerable, challenged, or lovingly called out on the patterns holding them back.
People who have already given up on their dream relationship because it feels safer to quit than stay devoted to what they truly desire.
Because this is intimate, high-touch coaching, I only take a handful of women at a time. When spots are gone, they’re gone — so if this speaks to you, now is the moment.
Watch Me Work My Magic
For two weeks, you’ll get white-glove dating service — I’ll step in, swipe, chat, and even set up dates for you. You’ll watch me do what I do best, in real time. This isn’t theory. It’s strategy, psychology, and a little bit of magic — applied live to your dating life. You’ll see exactly what works (and what doesn’t) before you ever send a message yourself. It’s part masterclass, part magic trick, and total proof that the apps aren’t just full of duds. You’ll feel the shift before you’ve even taken the wheel.
Private Coaching Sessions
Six powerful deep-dive calls where we walk step by step through The ADORED Method™ — Attract, Date, Observe, Respond, Ever After, Do It All Again. Each session is a breakthrough moment designed to shift your patterns, strengthen your self-trust, and bring dating into alignment with your fiercest standards.
Dating Chaos, Handled All Week
Unlimited Voxer access means you’re supported every step of the way. Whether you’re spiraling after a confusing text, prepping for a date, or celebrating a win — I’ll be in your pocket with coaching, accountability, and fierce-but-loving truth.
The ADORED Vault
Exclusive trainings and resources unlock as you move through each phase of The ADORED Method. No overwhelm, no fluff — just the exact tools you need, exactly when you need them. This is your lifelong toolkit for love.
Dating Debriefs & Reflections
Bring me your receipts — from text threads to post-date feelings. Together, we’ll refine your responses, spot hidden patterns, and lock in powerful shifts faster than trial and error ever could.
Your Personal Dating Wingwoman
Think of me as the banks to your river — holding your vision with you, keeping you steady when the current gets wild, and lovingly calling you out when you’re settling or holding back. You’ll never feel alone in the chaos of dating again.
Pay in Full
$5000
Save $1000 when you pay upfront!
*This offer cannot be purchased directly. You’ll be considered for it after your Raise the Bar call. With just five spots open at a time, availability is extremely limited.
Monthly
$1ooo
per month
(minimum 6 months commitment)
*Available by application only, after your Raise the Bar call.
Imagine waking up knowing your phone is full of matches that actually excite you. Your confidence is through the roof because you know exactly what to say in the chats that lead somewhere. You're spotting red flags faster and walking away without drama or doubt. You can't believe dating no longer feels like a chore and, shock of all shocks...it's fun.
This time feels different --
Because you finally have someone in your corner who's as invested in your love life as you are. Every time you wobble, you are met with a compassionate voice note. Every win gets celebrated. You are no longer alone and this new devotion to dating feels right.
Not just because the momentum is building.
Not just because you feel your person right around the corner.
But because you've become the woman who knows she gets to have it all and is finally ready to receive it.
And imagine knowing that when you do meet your person, you have the skills and standards to build a relationship that actually lasts.
Mae B.
OMG! He just confessed he is in love with me and now we are together! I am surprisingly happy and calm. I couldn't have done this without you, Nicole!
Jamie K.
I was on the verge of divorce and after completing your program, I have a new compassion and ability to relate and communicate with my husband.
Mayuri P.
I always wanted a partner who would leave me love notes, cook for me, plan dates, and express how much he appreciates me. I can't even believe this is my reality!
Wendy M.
Get started NOW!! I took the leap and asked Nicole to be my coach and I have NO REGRETS!! Best decision I have made for myself. She has the tools and skill set to cut through so much crap and get to the meat of the issue, so smooth and sooo EFFECTIVE. Don't hesitate. Nicole is worth every penny. LOVE YOU NICOLE!!!
Holly J.
Working with Nicole gave me a new perspective on how to approach dating. It was nice having someone in my corner as I rode the roller coaster of dating. She helped me stay in the game longer and made it more fun. She gave me helpful insights that were previously blind spots. I highly recommend working with her to get back your dating swagger.
Stephen K.
Nicole has been a great relationship coach. She takes the time to place value on what you’re looking for both within yourself and a relationship. She's not a coach that just gives you tips for today's "modern dating," she shakes your personality to ensure you’re building yourself first so that you can confidently show the best version of yourself to others. I would highly recommend her for anyone looking for the right person to guide them and increase their dating success!
Nicole Powers isn’t your average dating coach.
Most dating advice tells women to ‘tone it down,’ play games, or settle. Nicole's signature ADORED Method flips that script by helping you date with confidence, strategy, and fierce standards so you finally attract the kind of man who sees your power as irresistible, not intimidating.
For the last decade, Nicole has been the secret weapon for smart, bold women who refuse to settle for mediocre men. Her coaching blends the wisdom of Internal Family Systems, the grounding of attachment theory, and the relationship insights of the Gottmans. Equipping her clients with evidence-based tools and soul-level guidance.
Clients call her “the real deal” because she shows up as both your fiercest advocate and your softest place to land. Nicole doesn’t just guide you through dating — she arms you with the tools to rewire old patterns, stand unapologetically in your worth, and build a legacy of love that actually lasts.
Do you work with men?
I love working with men!
What if I don’t want to date right now?
That's okay! Ruthless Romance is a highly customized experience, so, if you’re in a “getting ready to be ready” season, we’ll honor that.
We can spend our time getting clear on what you want in the future, exploring what’s holding you back, and creating a plan that feels safe, spacious, and aligned.
You don’t need to be “ready.” You just need to be willing to take one small, brave step. The truth is, most people never feel 100% ready — but with the right support, you’ll move forward in a way that feels right for you.
I want this… but do I really have time for it?
I get it — your calendar is packed and your energy is precious. Tough love time: your love life won’t change by accident.
Ruthless Romance is designed for high-capacity women with full lives — and it will require your presence, effort, and intention.
You don’t need hours a day, but you do need to show up consistently. We’ll work around your schedule, but we won’t water down the work.
If you can carve out a little space, I'll make sure it's worth it.
Can I do this if I’ve never really dated before? Or if I’ve been out of the game for a while?
Yes. You don’t need to be a seasoned swiper or a dating pro. You just need to be willing to show up with honesty and curiosity.
I’ll teach you the rest.
What if I get into a relationship before the 6 months are up?
We'll party like it's 1999! And when it happens, I’ll help you navigate the relationship part — from deepening emotional intimacy to staying true to yourself as the connection evolves. Finding your partner is just the first leg of the journey. I'm here for all of it!